But what if people use gender expectations to harm people, the same way they would use stereotypes? I don’t think that’s possible. Gender expectations are something that can be used to help guide someone who identifies as a certain gender at what others think would help them live in society. They are the norm in society, and you don’t need to be the norm to identify in a society. After all, we live in a society, but we don’t need to all live the same way. Most people are massive fans of the Marvel Cinematic Universe, but disliking it doesn’t mean you can’t live in a society. The same should be said for gender. Gender is simply another way we identify each other, so while there should still be an expectations, there shouldn’t be a limit. These expectations are there to help you identify with a gender, not force you out of it.
Doesnt mean you cant live in a society YET
and we live in clown world (not a society)