To be fair, even a lot of old school Trekkies will tell you that Star Trek is, indeed, dead. Sure there's Star Trek: Discovery and the new Picard series, but a lot of people agree that the JewJew Abrams movies weren't Trek and that they were more or less just puppeteering the rigored corpse of Star Trek with everything after.
It's really sad to accept, but there it is. Star Trek gave it's last dying breaths in the mid 2000s. At least Enterprise, for all it's flaws, still FELT like Trek. This new shit just doesn't. At least not to me, and not to a lot of people.
Still, even at their worst Trekkies were pretty chill. The worst shit we ever had was autistic arguments over whether Picard's cool, shrewd, tactical style was better than Kirk's balls-to-the-wall, rough and tumble, "damn the torpedoes, full speed ahead!" style.
They were actually fairly civil. Jerry would have fucking hated it.