Xander is developing perfectly normally, though I think he got control of his giant baby head pretty quick (not that his head too big...he's just a baby and they all have giant heads). Growth rates normal. He's putting his own pacifier in his mouth. Recognizes people. Responds to his name. All good.Well I'm glad things have mostly worked out thus far. Sorry to hear about your wife's aunt. That being said, it is a privilege for great-grandmothers to have their great-grandchildren in their lives. Best wishes to all. It's nice to hear that the uncles are enthusiastic about their nephew. How has Xander's development been coming along? Like his awareness of his surroundings, grabbing your finger if you hold it out, that sort of thing?